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Attentions all ladies. Let it never be said that LJ Knight did not offer up solid advice for the ladies who are out in the dating world, searching for their Mr. Right. Ladies, take heed of this advice. Within the first 2 to 4 weeks of you dealing with a man, there are key warning signs that will help you in determining if he is truly interested in you and if he is looking to move things upward and onward with you. Or, if he only wants to slide and dive between your thighs and add you as a notch under his belt and nothing more. Before you waste time, effort, and give him good sex, (unless that’s all you want and that is another post for another day) be sure that he is sincere about dating you. Men offer us clues as to their intentions with us by their behavior. Women often ignore these clues because we are often consumed with what we want from a man. We don’t even notice if he has any real interest in offering it to us because we have already decided that we are into him. Here are few clues to help you determine whether you should keep him or keep it moving. Remember, this is within the first 2 to 4 weeks of dating. They say that just like a woman knows if she would ever sleep with a man within the first moments of meeting him, a man knows if he would ever get serious with a woman within the first few interactions as well. Keep that in mind ladies before you waste your time.

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1. Going Out Vs. Sitting In The House.

If the first thing he wants to do when attempting to court you is come over to your house, or have you come over to sit in his house, it is because he is lazy. This lazy style of dating is unacceptable and should not be tolerated. Make him step his game up. He should be offering to take you out on an actual date within the first two weeks. It does not have to be expensive or super high end, but he needs to make the effort to court you. Him sitting in your house, eating your food, watching your big screen TV, looking at your face is not courting. It actually pisses me off. Eating all my damn Banana Nut Cheerios. I don’t think so buddy. Another reason why some men prefer this besides being lazy as hell, is because it is a sure fire way to ease his way in between your legs. You are much more likely to have sex with him while sitting on your couch in your living room all comfortable and relaxed, than out in public, at a restaurant or at a movie. Less effort for him and much more convenient on the road to getting into those panties.

2. He Never Asks You Questions.

He never asks you questions about your life. He makes no real effort to get to know you as an individual. I’m not talking about questions about what your living situation is? Or whether or not you have kids? Those are just questions that can help him to determine how much access he will have to you and how convenient you will be to him for things that he is concerned about…Like sex. When a man wants to get to know you better he will ask more intimate questions. He will ask you questions that will assist him in knowing you as a person. These questions could be about your hobbies, family, friends, etc. He will ask you questions that will aide him in getting to know you for you. As opposed to questions that assist him in determining what he can get out of you. His level of interest in you as a person will be obvious. See the difference?

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3. He Reveals Nothing About Himself.

He does not tell you anything about the things he enjoys, his life, his work, hobbies, family, etc. He just gives you basic information like where he works and lives. He does this because he has no real intentions on making you a permanent fixture in his life or even a possible addition. Therefore, why would he open up to you or reveal any details about himself. He doesn’t know you or want to get to know you for that matter. Ladies, if you have been dating (and I use this word loosely) this men for two weeks and you don’t even know his damn last name; if he has hobbies or not, guess what? He is not taking your seriously. You are merely an option to him. Keep it moving.

4. Generic Text Messages.

“Good morning sweetheart”, “Hey baby”, “How’s your day honey?”. These are a few examples of the bland ass text messages that men will send out to various women in their cell phone in a forwarded message. Instead of him sending you a more personalized message, you know, like one using your damn name. You get generic ones like the examples I used earlier. It is because he is sending those same messages to various women at the same time. You were just a part of the forwarded message that got sent to you and 3 other chicks. Another kicker is if you only get this generic message once a day and this is the only form of communication you receive from him throughout the day. No phone call, just this one funky, worthless text message. This is game boo. It is his way of assuring that it can never be said that he did not reach out to communicate with you. You can never make that complaint because technically he did communicate with you when he sent you that endearing “Good Morning Baby” .

5. He Only Text Messages.

“I don’t really like talking on the phone.” This is the line that some men will use as their reasoning as to why they refuse to call you, and will only text message you. It’s bull crap. It is much easier to text message with someone because you really don’t have to divulge any real effort. Talking to someone on the phone and having a conversation with someone requires more effort and interest in them. Disclaimer: Some men truly don’t enjoy talking on the phone. Some men aren’t “phone” kind of guys with anyone. Except for their moma’s maybe. Here is the thing with that, if he is into you, he will make adjustments and allowances for you. He may not have ever sat on the phone with any other woman he has dated for two hours but he does it with you every night. Why? Because He likes you and enjoys your company.

6. He Remembers Nothing You Tell Him.

You tell him that you have a job interview on Monday. You guys talk the next day and he can’t remember that you had a job interview and doesn’t even ask about it. Or you reveal to him what your favorite hobbies or activities and he can never remember them. This was the clue I used when I was dating. I would tell guys that I was a writer. I would even go as far as listing off the many publications I had written for. If he later could not remember that I enjoyed writing, it would be my hint that he was not that into me. He did not have to remember every single magazine or site I wrote for but he at least needed to remember that I enjoyed writing. Why? Because it was important to me. If he was interested in me then this is something that he would store in his mental memory bank. He would only do this if he felt there was a possibility that he would continue to date me long term or had a strong interest in me.

7. Time Of Calls.

You can only get in touch with him during his work hours. You better call between 8-5. If you call him at about 7 p.m., he turns into Batman and even Bruce Wayne can’t spot hit ass. When guys do this, there is a good chance that they are already involved with another woman and you are the side piece or the “possible”. Like it is “possible” that she might give me some so I need to keep her around. It is “possible” that I might be able to hit that if I keep her around long enough. Sorry boo, he can’t talk to you because he is spending time with his REAL girlfriend now. Tell him to go play Batman with another chick.

8. He Despises Relationships. So He Says.

This is a gray area. But some men will give you a disclaimer when you first meet them about how they hate being in a relationship. Relationships just aren’t for him and blah, blah. For some men, this may be said out of fear. Perhaps he has never been in an adult relationship with a woman. Maybe he is intimidated by you? Hence the gray area. However, for other men it is an excuse and I call bull ish on it. He is setting the stage for your expectations. He does not want you to expect a relationship from him. Of course, that does not mean he won’t expect to get in between your legs. Because he will. He just wants to assure that YOU know, that he is not trying to get serious with you. So that it can never be said that he led you on or convinced you in any way that you two would be in a relationship. Even if you do sleep together.

9. Take Away Text.

The take away text is the text message you send a man within the first 2 to 4 weeks of dating him when he is lacking in giving you attention. It is a way to gage how interested he is in you. It is the text that warns him that you are loosing interest in him and you have one foot out of the door. So, he needs to step his game up and quick if he wants to continue dating you. It may go something like this:

Hey, you know, I rarely here from you, and you seem to be awfully busy all the time. So I think I’m going to fall back and let you do your thing.

His response to this text message will be the warning signal for where he is with you mentally. If he does not alter his behavior towards you by offering more attention and time to express his sincere interest in you then that is probably because is he is not that interested in you. He doesn’t care if you fall of the face of the earth because he has 4 other women just like you that he is juggling.